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Every Sister Should Come Forward
Kanab Relief Society
Schoolhouse, Kanab, Utah Territory
February 13, 1881
Sister Snow Smith said the time was when we thought that our husbands would save us, independent of our own exertions. Now we understand that instead of depending entirely on our husbands for salvation and position, we have to work them out ourselves.12 The responsibility and labor that devolve upon women are becoming more important. If society is reformed, it is to a great extent because women are refined. And the well-being of her children depends much on her influence and example. These societies are to be helps to the bishops and take many cares from their hands. We are organized in ward and stake capacities, and it is necessary that every sister should come forward and take hold of this work for the benefit of their daughters. The Lord wants us to be a peculiar people. Felt that none of us draw as near to Father as we should. When we get the victory over ourselves, then we are saved. “I would say to my young sisters, never shrink from a duty.13 God has put the means in your hands to become queens and priestesses in his kingdom, if you will only live for it.”14
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[1]Brigham Young dedicated Kanab, located in the arid southern Utah desert, in 1870, a few years after settlers had first grazed cattle there and built a fort. (Martha Sonntag Bradley, A History of Kane County, Utah Centennial County History Series [Salt Lake City: Utah State Historical Society, 1999], 60–62, 74.)
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[2]Snow recorded that she and Young had “traveled one thousand miles by team over jolting rocks and through bedded sand, occasionally camping out at night on long drives.” They returned to Salt Lake City in March 1881. (Eliza R. Snow, “Sketch of My Life,” in The Personal Writings of Eliza Roxcy Snow, ed. Maureen Ursenbach Beecher [Logan: Utah State University Press, 2000], 37; see also Jill Mulvay Derr, “Mrs. Smith Goes to Washington: Eliza R. Snow Smith’s Visit to Southern Utah, 1880–81,” in Honoring Juanita Brooks: A Compilation of 30 Annual Presentations from the Juanita Brooks Lecture Series, Dixie State University, ed. Douglas D. Alder [St. George, UT: Dixie State University, 2014], 475–510.)
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[3]Derr, “Mrs. Smith Goes to Washington,” 495–498.
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[4]Snow formed organizations throughout the Mormon settlements in the West. She remembered, “I have traveled from one end of Utah Territory to the other—into Nevada and Idaho in the interests of these organizations—have organized hundreds of the Young Ladies’ and Primary Associations since their introduction.” (Snow, “Sketch of My Life,” 37.)
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[5]The group camped for three nights on the way from St. George to Kanab, an eighty-mile trip. They also visited Long Valley, Orderville, Glendale, and Johnson—all in southern Utah—before returning to St. George. (Eliza R. Snow Smith, “Trip to Kanab,” Woman’s Exponent 9, no. 20 [Mar. 15, 1881]: 157.)
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[6]Kanab Utah Stake Relief Society Minutes and Records, vol. 1, 1878–1921, Dec. 6, 1878, 3, CHL. Elizabeth Little noted at the official welcome to Snow and Young, “A long cherished hope is realized in the happy event. Here, on the frontier of Utah, in comparative isolation, it is the first time that any of our representative ladies have visited us.” (M. Elizabeth Little, “A Welcome,” Woman’s Exponent 9, no. 21 [Apr. 1, 1881]: 165.)
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[7]Snow Smith, “Trip to Kanab,” 157; M. Elizabeth Little, “Kanab Relief Society,” Woman’s Exponent 9, no. 21 (Apr. 1, 1881): 165–166. The Kanab Relief Society was established on November 12, 1873, and the Kanab Stake Relief Society held its first quarterly conference on December 6, 1878. (Kanab Ward, Kanab Stake, Relief Society Minutes and Records, Minute Book A, 1873–1883, Nov. 12, 1873, 3–4, CHL; Kanab Utah Stake Relief Society Minutes and Records, Dec. 6, 1878, 1–4.)
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[8]Snow and Young stayed with Minerva Snow during their time in St. George, and she accompanied them on their trip to Kane County. (Derr, “Mrs. Smith Goes to Washington,” 483, 491.)
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[9]Little, “A Welcome,” 165.
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[10]Emmeline B. Wells, “Salt Lake Stake Relief Society Conference,” Woman’s Exponent 9, no. 3 (July 1, 1880): 21–22.
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[11]Derr, “Mrs. Smith Goes to Washington,” 479–482.
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[12]Young spoke after Snow, encouraging women to accept and honor the principle of plural marriage and never to speak disrespectfully of their husbands. “My sisters,” Young said, “we have had a feast of correct principles.” (Little, “Kanab Relief Society,” 166.)
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[13]Minerva Snow spoke after Young and encouraged the women: “We should overcome our failings. What are the little trials of this life to the great blessings that are before us if we are faithful?” (Little, “Kanab Relief Society,” 166.)
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[14]The bulk of this discourse was paraphrased by Elizabeth Little, who took the minutes, but in these last two sentences, Little is apparently quoting Snow directly. Snow told the Santa Clara Relief Society on November 27, 1880, that “the young ladies of Zion are greater than the queens of the earth. We can become what we desire.” (Santa Clara Ward, Saint George Stake, Relief Society Minutes and Records, vol. 3, 1873–1893, Nov. 27, 1880, 47, CHL.)
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[15]Little’s report of the meeting was sent to Emmeline B. Wells in Salt Lake City and printed in the Woman’s Exponent. There is no report of the February 13, 1881, meeting in the Kanab Ward Relief Society minutes or the Kanab Stake Relief Society minutes, but the minutes of the next meeting make reference to the visit and to Snow’s speech. (Kanab Ward Relief Society Minutes, Mar. 3, 1881, 165.)